My name is Amara. I am 33 years old from Enugu State. I come from a family that believes strongly in culture & tradition. I gave my life to Christ 12 years ago and met my fiancé 5 years ago. He is a born again child of God that won’t settle for anything ungodly.
We made moves for our wedding. Everything was going on fine until my uncle, who is the head of the family took a stand that my dowry must include colanut, palm oil and a chicken for the deity in our family compound or else no wedding.
Ifeanyi; my fiancé, refused to provide the items and ever since, my wedding has been lingering for months. I have heard several advice from people. Some said I should look for another man to marry. Some said Ifeanyi should provide those items; giving to Caesar what belongs to Caesar. Some said we should stick to our believe.
But I think it’s better I seek advice from neutral people. Please what should we do?